Are you the kind of girl who likes decent boys? Are you worried that Mr. Nice Guy is not attracted to you? Many girls do, even a girl who is good-looking, intelligent and articulate might often feel that catching nice boys is challenging.As a girl, without demeaning yourself, there are few things that you can do to draw the attention of a decent young man.
- Know your own mind and heart. It is attractive when a girl is able to form opinions of herself. If she knows what she wants to do with her life, that makes her very attractive. As the Bench tag line goes, “Smart is Sexy.”
- Develop respect for others. Just like how girls want to be loved, boys have deep desire to be respected. Interestingly, most decent young men would say that they value respect more than love. Guys like to think that their opinions matter to someone. Thus, acknowledging his good point of view and comments will surely leave a smile in his heart.
- Dress modestly, and maintain good hygiene. The dress and grooming of a girl are loudspeakers that broadcasts your inner thoughts and personality. If your attire is well-arranged and modest, it will send a positive message, but if it is provocative or sloppy, then the message will be negative--you are desperate for attention!
What are major turn-offs for nice guys?
First on the list, flirt girls. If a girl finds ways to touch the arm of every boy she meets or coyly glances at every passing male, then boys will think she is a flirt and that is a major turn-off for boys that are looking for a serious relationship.
Second, those who are clingy. A girlfriend that's too possessive and jealous even to her boyfriend's best buddies - definitely unattractive.
Above all, caring for both your external and inner beauty, will definitely attract the type of young man that you deserve.
Note: The above article is mainly based on personal point of view and some influence of the Awake Journal published by The Watchtower publications.
- Melody
Guest writer for Monz Avenue
http://www.monzavenue.com
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